December 10, 2015

Grayscale Thursday: Ocean Adventure Kids

"If a child cannot learn the way we teach,
we must teach in a way a child can learn."

Ocean Adventure Kids

This post is not only to show framed images I took during Matthew's field trip in Ocean Adventure but a sort of reflection too.

Yesterday, Matthew went home with many small stars and a sad face. This indicates that he did not behave well in school. Then his yaya told us that she was informed by the teacher that Matthew bit his classmates finger and hit another classmate with notebook.

As soon as I knew what he did, naiinis ako, and I want to go home right away and talk to him. But I need to control my temper and wait until got home.

Children are great imitators.
So give them something great to imitate."

Ocean Adventure Kids

Mommy and I had to talk about it why he behaves like that lately. She sends me an article on how to discipline kids positively.

From there article, I realized that Matthew should not the one to blame on but, maybe, us. Oftentimes kasi, we used to scold and shout on him whenever he started his pagiging makulit.

We get easily lost our temper on him and there are times when he wanted to talk to us, he needs to catch our attention first.

I think the change should come from us first. Just like the quotation above, kids used to copy whatever we do and we should show them a good example to copy.

From now on, I will try to understand and discipline him in a positive way.

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